A Conversation

She sounds lovely!

I can see why you loved her. I’m really sorry it didn’t work out for the two of you.


It definitely hurt losing her,
but the more I look back,
the more I feel it was worth it.

I learned so much from her when we were together, but even though we rarely saw each other after, it felt like she taught me even more after.

Even though I didn’t have her, she was still my inspiration.

I never really thought we’d get back together, but the only reason I ever improved myself was if by some miracle it did happen, I was going to be the best I could be for her.

I wouldn’t make the same mistakes.

Even though we didn’t get back together, I still realized she made me the best person I could be.


That’s such a mature outlook on things. I wish everyone looked at their previous relationships through this lens. I think there would be a whole lot less animosity.

I know that not everyone can say the same about past relationships, but even just looking at the relationship as “what can I take with me from this” is really emotionally mature.

I’m glad that you were able to make improvements on yourself and that you were able to experience real love even if it didn’t end ideally.

I’m excited for whatever comes next for you!


That’s nice to hear.

For the longest time I felt like a pathetic love-sick kid, so hearing that I sound emotionally mature definitely means I’m going in the right direction.

And you’re right about getting the chance to experience true love.

Like you said, it didn’t end the way I wanted, but I couldn’t have had a more perfect experience.

Our time together felt straight out of a movie. It didn’t feel real how perfectly everything fell into place.


I’d love to hear more about it/her sometime.

In fact I’d be honored!

I think part of moving forward is being able to talk about these experiences freely with gratefulness. It sounds like you’re able to do that really well.

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