There’s this funny observation that seems far away in memory, though i do remember it making laugh hearing a story about a “Scene Kid” being pissed that everyone confused them with “Emos” & “Goths.”
From the uninitiated perspective, they’re all the same; a bunch of fags with too many feelings & weird clothes.
That being said, I’ll try to explain the difference to the best of my understanding, then provide…
You know what, nah – I’m not gonna expose my ignorance on the subject at the moment…
Anywho
Hearing someone get so upset about ….
Whatever
Let’s get to the point:
Me
I now understand that Scene Kid’s frustration about being misidentified as Emo or Goth or whatever.
Something that triggers me is when people assume I’m Gay. I don’t let it be known to them; if I got pissed & exploded every time someone called me “Gay,” they’d probably assume I was deeply homophobic or deeply closeted.
I’m neither.
I’m not gonna say “I love Gay people” because some Gay people are awful people. Because that’s the thing; Gay people are just people to me. I do love people in general; that’s a choice I’ve made. It’s just that I recognize I deserve my own love more than others who only want to take advantage of me…
That stopped being about Gay people specifically and about people in general; a part of me that cares too much wanted to mention that, and I’m already passed the point of “No’ return” – hahah, get iT?
Ok, let’s see if I can find my way back to the story.
I’m not Homophobic, nor am I closeted. I’m not Straight, for sure, nor am I afraid of being seen a lil’bent. I just don’t really think my sexuality matters most of the time. There’s about 8 billion people on Earth; that means I won’t have sex with 99.999999..% of people, so it’s not really their concern. Sure, if they’re interested in me, genuinely interested in getting to know me, then I’ll share my story; if you’re trying to see if you can fuck me, then you’re gonna realize you’re not lucky…🤫
What was that? Must have been the wind… where was I? Right
Skipping to the actual point, and hoping to bring it full circle:
I’m Queer, not Gay. I used to think I was Bi, then I realized that we were “polar” opposites…
Hehee…
Anyways, I’m gonna see if I can actually bring it full circle now.
Basically, in realizing where the inspiration for my frustration <3> came from….
That’s too wordy; keep it simple now
Emos, Goths, & Scene Kids are like Queers, Gays, & Bisexuals
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